One of the dumbest things I’ve ever done
One of my sons is 16 in a week – no drivers permit quite yet – and we are driving on a lonely country road and I pull over. No one is around, nor is there ever anyone around, much less – of all things – a cop.
“Do you want to drive?” I ask. “Just for a bit.”
“Sure,” he says, and gets behind the wheel. He is happy to do this – to actually drive – even though he is 16 in a week. I’ve had my kids drive in a parking lot before they were 16, so this is just one level up, I think.
“No one’s ever on this road,” I say. “We should be fine.”
He drives toward a big hill about a quarter mile down the road; he is doing quite well, staying in his lane and able to regulate his speed, and all is well until IT happens.
IT is a cop car that crests the hill in the opposite lane and comes toward us. A cop! We continue on, making it to the top of the hill ourselves, and I say, “At the bottom, pull over. I’ll take over.”
At the bottom of the hill, we switch. We are no longer having a good time.
This is the hill that saved the day!
We continue on our way, with me driving. I figure all is well now, but it is not.
Yes, in my rear view mirror, I see the cop crest over the hill coming toward us; he had apparently turned around. In a minute, he following me. I turn onto the main road, and his lights flash, with luminosity like that found on the sun.
He walks up to my car, carefully. Do I know why he stopped me? No, I don’t, I answer. My registration: I have a temporary registration on the window, and he was checking to make sure that was valid.
My heart is in my hand, but I manage to be cool as a cucumber.
“Oh,” I say.
“I your license clean.”
“It is.”
He goes back to his car and soon comes back, handing me my license. He says all is well, and I can go one my way. Have a good day.
I thank him.
Me and my son look at each other. I have never seen a cop on that road – indeed, hardly even a car – but today – of all days – this cop stops us. Today.
Wow.
If it wasn’t for the hill, we would be dead. He would have seen us switch drivers, but the hill blocked him.
I learned my lesson – big time.
Where to Have a Heart Attack
I drive to one of my clients in my beat up bomb van, the ghettomobile we call it. It is 11 years old, and there’s no AC or heat, and the power steering leaks, the passenger’s door handle is about to fall off and the electric doors mostly don’t work but, when they are in the mood, they do, and the front bumper has fallen off and it’s banged up on every side from much use and teenage drivers with their learners permit, and it overheats every month but adding antifreeze keeps us going for another month, and we can go on.
My client happens to be a repair facility in Syracuse, and when I try to move the van since its blocking another car, it doesn’t start. They are so busy, I often have to move my car from spot to spot to get another vehicle out. But this time, it makes this sound: Click, click, click. One of the mechanics must have heard the clicking, because he comes over and hooks up a portable charger, and the van starts. We move the van to another spot, and all seems well.
A little while later, I go to leave but when I try to start the van, I hear the clicking again. Well, we’re dead again. I go into the office and tell the service manager about my problem, and he says, “Oh, it’s probably the battery if it died in such a short time. I’ll give you an old battery for free.”
Well, that’s exactly what happens. A mechanic puts it in in about ten minutes, and the van fires right up, just like that.
If you’re going to break down, do it at your mechanic’s garage. If you’re going to have a heart attack, do it while visiting your grandmother in the hospital, or in the hospital parking garage as you leave. That’s the moral of the story.
There are no Guarantees in Life
We have drumlins in the area where we live, and driving consists of going up and down hills as if on a flattened roller coaster, and that’s the background for this story.
My son and I are traveling thought the countryside and are talking about life. I say, “Hey, life is not guaranteed. See that hill up there? When I come over that hill, there could be another car veering over into my lane, and we could all be killed.”
We reach the hill and are almost at the crest of it when I see something out of my right peripheral vision.
A teenager, racing out of his driveway on a bike and plugged into his device – oblivious to everything – darts right in front of my car.
I swerve.
He swerves.
The screech of the tires…
I miss him by six inches, no more.
I stop.
He stops.
Down I lower the passenger’s window.
“You know I almost killed you,” I say.
He takes off his ear-buds and looks around, realizing that he was almost dead.
“My bad,” he says.
I agree.
The moral: life is not guaranteed. And be careful when you are plugged in. Life still exists around you.
A Friend in Need…
We have a task at hand: load many 80 pound bags of concrete into my ghettovan and onto the little travel trailer I have attached to it, and get it all home, along with some wood. My friend and I have calculated the weight beforehand, and we thought the van and trailer could hold the bags, but we were wrong.
The wheels on the van are flattened, and it is worse on the trailer: they are squished like a donut and we’re afraid one is going to pop.
We need these materials by tomorrow, and they are all bought and paid for, and loaded.
What to do?
Just then, we see a friend who we happened to see inside, and he pulls up next to us in his car and – guess what – he is pulling a trailer, but this one is much more substantial than mine. I am wondering what to do, and hit on an idea: how about asking him to take some of my concrete? He drives right by my house on the way home. What could be more perfect.
Now, he could have been a different part of the store and never ran into me, or he could have had a cup of coffee before he left and missed me by 10 minutes, or he could have gone to a different store first and arrived after I left.
But he didn’t. He was there.
So I ask him. No problem, he says, and he and my boys start moving the bags of concrete over to his rig. Half is left with me, half with him, but the tires go up and up with each bag off-loaded, and away we go.
I get my concrete just like that.
Tell me there isn’t a God.